it sounds like a bad idea, but i called bav auto before i did it & this is what they suggested...
i told em my pistons fully compressed but still couldn't get the pads in (i had em check the part # as well... they were the right pads)... so they told me to take some sandpaper, put it on a flat surface & go to town on the pads
took a while, since the pads were WICKED thick, but i got em down enough to squeeze em in... that was about 2k miles ago & no problems