thanks for the replies. i went to my car and no theres no buttons on my rear view mirror but maybe they changed that for the newer cars? because my car has a button on the gps that says "assist". my question now is if that button on my gps is bmw assist.
For people who didn't order their car with bmw assist, but w/ gps: does your car have a little icon that says "emergency" and when u click it does it have two icons that allow you to call "emergency" and "assist"?
i guess if everybody has that, then thats not bmw assist. if that doesn't work, i'll open my trunk lining to check for the TCU. thanks for your help.